The Charities find beauty in love's unfinished lessons with “I'm Still Learning How”

For "I'm Still Learning How," The Charities explore the emotional complexities of love, drawing on the enduring two-part harmonies of 1960s soul. The track is about realizing that relationships are a journey of discovery, and it handles heartbreak with maturity, understanding that not all connections last, but even difficult experiences can leave something valuable behind. 

The band hails from the Central Coast and was formed in 2017 by songwriter and lead vocalist Brock Van Pelt, developing a sound rooted in sweet soul, mixed with funk, R&B, and gospel. The classic soul influence makes the song feel familiar, while the group’s broader style keeps the song comfortably within a contemporary West Coast soul setting.

"I'm Still Learning How" refuses to portray disappointment as wasted time. The Charities welcome the chance for growth that comes from mistakes, separation, and trying to reconnect. "I'm Still Learning How" is a contemplative love song for anyone still figuring things out. The group’s willingness to be vulnerable reminds us that personal growth often begins when we keep learning instead of pretending to have all the answers.

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